
{"id":3788,"date":"2016-03-15T11:46:03","date_gmt":"2016-03-15T11:46:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.missussr.co.uk\/?p=3788"},"modified":"2016-03-15T11:46:03","modified_gmt":"2016-03-15T11:46:03","slug":"golden-rules-for-table-etiquette","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/missussr.co.uk\/ru\/golden-rules-for-table-etiquette\/","title":{"rendered":"Golden rules for table etiquette"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Golden rules for table etiquette<br \/>\nImagine you are invited by your new friend to a restaurant, and you are keen to make a positive impression on him \/ her or, say, it is a festal banquet with your senior management or business partners. It is highly unlikely that one would be impressed by a female, which eats a chicken stick with her hands, or maybe slices prawns with a knife, and, even worse, has never heard of a slop-basin.<br \/>\nA well brought-up person is always recognised based on its behaviour at a dinner table, posture and skills at handling of tableware. At the same time, it is not the end of the world if you are not familiar with the rules of table etiquette \u2013 the point of this article is to understand all the twists and turns of table etiquette. Don\u2019t be embarrassed if you don\u2019t know \u2013 let the one who doesn\u2019t want to know feel so.<br \/>\nSo, let\u2019s look through the rules of taking various and commonly served dishes.<br \/>\nBread and sandwiches<br \/>\nAs a rule, bread is normally picked up with hands and placed on either the main plate or the patty plate, which is usually specifically prepared for it and placed at the left. After that, a part of bread or a cookie is snapped off vs. just biting off smaller pieces.<br \/>\nIn order to spread either butter or pasty on bread, sufficient quantity is taken off the common plate and then placed onto the own. It\u2019s not hygienic at all to place bread on the palm of the hand \u2013 as such you could only accurately hold a slice of bread on a plate with your fingers and do the spreading. It is also more convenient to eat a slice, fully covered with bread or pasty, using either a knife or a folk, because it minimises the risk of being soiled.<br \/>\nAt the same time, sandwiches are good to be taken withe hands in case it is served with drinks before the main course.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-1-31.jpg\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-1-31-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"1 (1)-3\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-3804\" srcset=\"https:\/\/missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-1-31-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-1-31-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-1-31-580x387.jpg 580w, https:\/\/missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-1-31.jpg 1050w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Soups<br \/>\nBroth and soups are generally served in a cup with either one or two handles, or in a soup plate. Broth in a cup is fine to be taken with a desert spoon in a right hand; a table spoon, however, is used to take soup. Cups and plates for broth are served on a tray, and, once eating is done, a spoon is placed on a tray to point out to a fact. It is normal to leave a spoon in a soup plate if it is served in such a manner, as well as when additional portion of soup is poured into a plate.<br \/>\nIn a scenario when preliminary sliced soup meat is served on a plate, one should first put it on its own plate, then slice into smaller pieces and, finally, have soup on top of it.<br \/>\nSoup is generally eaten in small portions by means of a table spoon \u2013 you should keep a plate angled away from you and a spoon moving in a diagonal direction from right to the left. It is also important to lift a spoon up to the level of your mouth, not vice versa.<br \/>\nAlso, it is a norm not to fully finish your soup course at the ceremonial reception and public tables \u2013 it is fine, however, to have it all in case the environment is less official!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-5-2.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-5-2.jpg\" alt=\"1 (5)-2\" width=\"400\" height=\"221\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3791\" srcset=\"https:\/\/missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-5-2.jpg 400w, https:\/\/missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-5-2-300x166.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Meat course<br \/>\nMeat courses can be normally divided into 2 groups: courses with chopped meat (cutlers, zrazy, etc.) and courses with lump meat (roast meat, etc.). Etiquette rules imply that courses with chopped meat are treated with a folk in the left hand. One should also keep in mind that a knife and a folk should always be there in your hands along the whole meat course, as you slice it bit by bit.<br \/>\nChicken and poultry dishes<br \/>\nMany of us believe that chicken and poultry dishes should be treated with hands \u2013 unfortunately it is a common misconception. Etiquette rules suggest that in such cases a folk and a knife should be used, in minor situation is it also normal to help yourself with finger-tips.<br \/>\nNow let\u2019s get back to a slop-basin, which usually contains water with a slice of lemon and is served on the table. It is fine to place tableware aside and take a chicken stick with your fingertips \u2013 once you are done with it, put your fingertips into the basin.<br \/>\nMany restaurants replace slop-basins with wet tower wipes. Also, sometimes chicken sticks are served with small valves on it (\u201cpapillotes\u201d) which allows to keep hands and fingers clear. <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-2-3.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-2-3.jpg\" alt=\"1 (2)-3\" width=\"640\" height=\"427\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3801\" srcset=\"https:\/\/missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-2-3.jpg 640w, https:\/\/missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-2-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-2-3-580x387.jpg 580w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Spaghetti<br \/>\nItalians eats spaghetti only with folks. Foreigners, however, might prefer a spoon in the left hand on top of a folk in the right one. In terms of the process itself, usually you get around five to six \u201cspaghettis\u201d rolled around your folk while being helped with a spoon in the other hand.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-6-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-6-2-1024x781.jpg\" alt=\"1 (6)-2\" width=\"1024\" height=\"781\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-3798\" srcset=\"https:\/\/missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-6-2-1024x781.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-6-2-300x229.jpg 300w, https:\/\/missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-6-2-580x442.jpg 580w, https:\/\/missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-6-2.jpg 1082w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Seafood<br \/>\nFish which is served entirely is justifiably considered as one of the most challenging dishes to eat \u2013 in these cases small folks and knives are usually used. At the same time, stewed, boiled and fried fished are eaten using special tableware. Knifes are generally used to separate fillet from the fish body. It is also normal to treat fish with two table folks. Small fish bones are separated using a folk, which are then aggregated at the edge of a plate.<br \/>\nPrawns, served in broth, are generally eaten entirely, in case they are somewhat small. Larger prawns are sliced with a folk, while your left hand holds a plate and helps to control the process. As you have probably noticed, knives are not used in these processes.<br \/>\nIn case prawns are cooked in the Asian manner, they are then handled by grabbing its tail edges with either chopsticks or hands \u2013 once sauced and bitten off, tail edges should be taken away. Also, as you might have guessed already, one would also need a small basin on the table with hot water in it to wash fingers.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-41.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-41-1024x656.jpg\" alt=\"1 (4)\" width=\"1024\" height=\"656\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-3796\" srcset=\"https:\/\/missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-41-1024x656.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-41-300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-41-580x372.jpg 580w, https:\/\/missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-41.jpg 1030w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>In consultation, let\u2019s sum up a number of very important rules of your potential behaviour at the table:<br \/>\n1. Don\u2019t place you elbows on the table<br \/>\n2. Don\u2019t panic if you have been soiled. Just ask someone among personnel bring you additional napkins. In case you soiled your neighbour \u2013 again, don&#8217;t panic, just offer her use your napkin and, obviously, apologise<br \/>\n3. Don\u2019t talk while holding a folk in your hand. Same if your mouth is full of food<br \/>\n4. Don\u2019t try to reach salt \/ pepper across the whole table if it is too far away from you \u2013 gently ask someone who\u2019s closer<br \/>\n5. Even if you don\u2019t like the food, please be patient and try at least a couple of pieces<br \/>\n6. Don&#8217;t blow your nose and refresh your makeup at the table<br \/>\n7. Once the dinner is over, don\u2019t leave a napkin on the chair \u2013 place it on the plate instead<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-7.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-7-1024x640.jpg\" alt=\"1 (7)\" width=\"1024\" height=\"640\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-3792\" srcset=\"https:\/\/missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-7.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-7-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-7-580x363.jpg 580w, https:\/\/missussr.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/1-7-870x544.jpg 870w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Bon appetite and let it all flow smoothly for you!<br \/>\nKristina Angel\u2019,<br \/>\nlife coach, psychologist and trainer of international etiquette.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Golden rules for table etiquette Imagine you are invited by your new friend to a restaurant, and you are keen to make a positive impression on him \/ her or, say, it is a festal banquet with your senior management or business partners. 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